Introducing...............

William Ronald.........lovingly known as Baby Will.

Will joined our family without much drama (yeah for no more drama!!!) on April 20 at 1:06pm. He weighed 7 lbs 14 oz (just like his mama!) and was 21 inches long.  Long and skinny baby boy.

And labor was awesome.  Yes, I actually said that.

After all the events over the past month, my doctor and I agreed that inducing was best so that I could line up help at home while I was in the hospital and even the first few days home.  The date was picked and we started the get ready!

The night before induction, we went out to dinner as a family of three, one last time.  And Grace spent the night with her MoMo and Papa since we had to be at the hospital before day care opened on the 20th.

We arrived and I was hooked up to the Pitoc.in by 7am.  My doc poked his head in right after the IV started and increased the dose --- apparently he didnt feel like spending the entire day waiting for it to work.  I agreed---- let's get this show on the road!!  By 10am, he broke my water but still no more progression -- only 2 cm and that's where I was when I arrived at the hospital.  But the contractions were steady and only about 2-3 minutes apart.  The epidural worked like magic!

At 11:30 am, I had progressed to 5cm and the doc went into the OR with another patient; his last words to me were "I will be back at 1pm.  Don't have a baby until then, ok?"  Sure Doc, I will try my best to do that.  My nurse took the chance to go to lunch.  I tried to get some sleep/rest but it just didnt work.

As soon as they were all gone, my pain pump (they gave me the little pain button for extra booster meds every 20 minutes!!!) decided to break -- ended up being a low battery but when you are depending on it, those "the pump is broken" beeps are not a welcome sound!!!!   Then, all of the sudden, it all felt different.  I asked the coverage nurse for my "something extra" --- the extra boost to the epidural only gave me a boost for an hour so I was pretty determined to have the baby in that hour!  Only then did my labor nurse return and check me to find that I was ready to deliver.  And now we had to find the doctor. 

Once the doc came in --- after we paged him back to the room from the OR (don't worry - he was done with surgery but had to skip his lunch) -- we prepped and 3 contractions worth of pushing later, William was born.

Big sister Grace came about an hour later and met her baby brother. She was in love instantly and quite proud to be a big sister.

Polly (the dog) wasn't really sure that first night what to do with this little person who made new noises but has quickly adapted and has become the protective big puppy-sis. 

And now we are a family of four.  It feels so nice to know that our family is complete.

The Worst Night...and then Week....of my Life

It's hard to even write about anymore. I have replayed it over and over and over in my head.  How did I hold it together?  How could we have missed all the warning signs --- sure, hindsight is 20/20 but could we have done something different?  What if I hadn't insisted on stopping at the ER? 

What happened you ask?  Here is the email I sent to family and friends just after I got home the first night.

Here is what I can tell you know --- its 4AM and I just got home. First let me thank all of you for the sprinkle today -- it was so great to see everyone and, even though I was very distracted, celebrate Baby #2.  Our baby and family is so blessed to have so many great friends around us.

Hubby spent the day in the ER complaining of immense pain.  He was cold to the touch and very pale.  I took him to the ER and they sent him via helicopter to FH (another hospital) mid-afternoon.  There was clearly internal bleeding from somewhere but no one could find the source of the bleed.  He never improved with all the tests and fluids and non-invasive things we tried.  He had interventional radiology -- using a probe and camera to go through your veins/arteries looking for leaks -- but nothing was found.  It took us a long time to find out where it was coming from.  He went into emergency exploratory surgery at midnight and 2 hours later, they found it.  The hernia screen that was put in a week ago had to be re-done and there was a tear and bleeding in his abdominal wall around that site.  He came through the surgery fine.  His aorta was checked and looks great (the best news of the entire day!).

He is still in Trauma ICU and will remain there, on the breathing tubes and ventilator, for at least the next few days.. 

To quote the surgeon, he is still very sick.  Still needing blood pressure support to keep the blood pressure up (which is a total reversal of what we are normally trying to do with him!).  His oxygen levels aren't staying up either which was the reason for the breathing tube in the first place.  We are doing a wait and see; trying to slowly wean him off these supports so his body can take over the functions as normal post-surgery. Once he is stable, they have to start his blood thinners again and get them balanced so that the heart valve is still safe.

At this point, there is nothing anyone, including me, can do but wait for Hubby to get through this phase.  Surgeon is taking things hour by hour still so we are very much in the initial phase of what could be a rough recovery.

What we know now is that Hubby had an internal bleed from a hernia screen that was placed in his abdominal wall only a week prior to this incident.  At the end of the day, he bled out a significant amount of his blood volume. 

That happened on March 27 and into the morning of March 28.  Hubby finally came home on April 4.  He has a long recovery ahead - weeks of just resting and letting his body recover from the trauma and to get his body to make more blood.  We are starting the blood thinner game again as well -- it's always hard to keep those balanced and now we just have to be extra cautious. 

I am doing my best to keep the house together, get the final things ready for Baby #2, and to keep Grace's schedule and life as normal as possible.  Somewhere in there I find time to sleep too!